Your straight buddies may be evolved and your girlfriend plenty chic, but even in this day and age, there are some questions that only a stylish gay man can answer.
Q: How do I develop my gaydar?
A: Unfortunately, you either have it or you don't. After all, you can take drawing classes, but that won't make you an artist. That being said, you can become more aware of your gaydar. The key here is understanding the difference between a cliché and a genuine sign—just because the lady cabdriver has a mullet doesn't mean she's a lesbian, and not all sharp dressers are queens. But it's safe to say that if your dude co-worker tries to slow dance with you at the holiday party, your gaydar bells should be ringing like a trolley.
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